Author Archives: notalifestyle

The Piano Teacher: Stigmatising BDSM In the name of art

The Piano Teacher: Stigmatising BDSM. We like well written, pithy reviews. It’s a common place now that you can’t do books or films about sex that the mainstream does not approve of without suggesting that those involved have some deep … Continue reading

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Should you be in the dock?

Should you be in the dock?.

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Skeletal challenges

to break a leg with a baseball bat? Easy if you fold the legs on a figure 4 or hit the side of the knee. Great excesses of pain are easy. Imagine being a mountaineer with claustrophobia. The easiest cave … Continue reading

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Work in progress

* A post for elsewhere about pervertibles and bdsm fashion. * A post for elsewhere about challenges and pleasure * Some thinking about publicizing the other blog.

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If it isn’t a challenge…

…it isn’t worth doing.

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All you have to do is believe….

Do you believe in BDSM? It’s a mad question isn’t it? That something called BDSM happens is a matter of fact, not belief. So you’ll understand something ¬†of why this article in the Grauniad’s Belief section is baffling to me. … Continue reading

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It’s the way that you do it.

It’s the way that you do it..

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